Understanding men is quite tough at times. If your partner is having some problem and you don’t know the reason try hard and find the solutions. In most of the time it has been seen that men become more aggressive when they are in crisis. If you can cope up with such a situation he will realize that he can depend on you and will get constant support and better understanding. Don’t interrogate much. They usually get irritated at such times. What is wrong? Why you have become like this? Please avoid these questions otherwise you may face some problems.
Put him in a relaxed zone where he can feel comfortable. Don’t ever think that he is avoiding you as he is already stressed out and he can’t help it anymore. Don’t ever make him think that you are worried. Let him be relaxed and think of his own.
Don’t discuss serious thing when he is depressed. It won’t be easy for him to subscribe. Just give him space so that he can open up. He needs your support badly and you are the person who can help him. But in case he doesn’t want to open up that means the matter is serious. He doesn’t want to share it. One more important thing don’t share your partner’s problem with anyone else. If you keep quite he’ll know he can open up to you without fear that his problems will become public domain. Don’t ever try sex as antidepressant. You may think that it will give him happiness. But NO. Sometimes giving some space speaks a lot.
If finally you are unable to find the reason try to give him a shock therapy. Just say him that since nothing is working out so you are just leaving him behind. I am sure it will work and he will be back to again.
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